i would also like to include the website of the article i read by Tim Elmore called the lies we tell are kids.
http://www.google.com/url?q=http%3A%2F%2Fgrowingleaders.com%2Fblog%2F&sa=D&sntz=1&usg=AFQjCNEa61DQmtPGvKqh50pIRswHKWRi3g
http://www.google.com/url?q=http%3A%2F%2Fgrowingleaders.com%2Fblog%2F&sa=D&sntz=1&usg=AFQjCNEa61DQmtPGvKqh50pIRswHKWRi3g